Please help me with figuring this out.?
Hi I have been wearing womens shoes for 11 years now. I had started out getting womens hiking boots because they look like mens. I had started wearing them in high school my senior year. Since most hiking boots look the same no one noticed. After I got out of school I started going for the tennis shoes that looked a little more feminine. I have always liked the way they looked and the way they fit. Lately I have been buying some flats. I have been able wear them around town and even to work. My boss don’t mind me wearing them. I like the way they fit and the styles they have. They also show off my tattoos. Lately I have bought a couple pairs of high heels. I have also wanted to wear heels to work. Not anything too high just some thing like 2 inches. I am trying to understand why I have started thinking this way. I thought I would ask and see if any one could help me out with this. I am just wondering if any one else has had this happen? If so how did you deal with it? I have been looking into professional help. How ever some don’t understand. I don’t mean any offence to any one here. I like to wear womens shoes alot. I am just trying to understand. Thanks in advance for your help and input.
Women wear shoes with heels because they like to and it feels nice. I can’t think of any reason why guys shouldn’t wear heels if they want to as well, and good for you for wearing what you like!
There are ridiculous and laughable ‘rules’ about clothes that make no sense at all. Who makes up these rules anyway?? ‘Guys should wear this, girls must wear that…’
It would be a happier world if people wore whatever pleased them and everyone else minded their own business. Being female, I’ve always been ‘allowed’ to wear skirts, dresses, jeans, shirts, flat shoes, high heels, blouses etc. etc. and I’ve always thought it was a pity that guys were ‘restricted’ by convention and couldn’t wear whatever they liked as well.
Wearing heels makes you look taller and feels great. There’s nothing wrong with you – you’re just bucking a trend. You definitely don’t need professional help! Just put on whatever shoes you like and enjoy it.
I think there is no big issue involed. You have covered your leg. And you have been somehow able to easily manage for such long years. You are now used to it. If in the initial stage, you had felt something odd, there is some meaning. Now that you have experienced using, you can very well continue.
You have created a news out of nothing and added spice and salt to it. I wonder what type of help do you expect.
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Women wear shoes with heels because they like to and it feels nice. I can’t think of any reason why guys shouldn’t wear heels if they want to as well, and good for you for wearing what you like!
There are ridiculous and laughable ‘rules’ about clothes that make no sense at all. Who makes up these rules anyway?? ‘Guys should wear this, girls must wear that…’
It would be a happier world if people wore whatever pleased them and everyone else minded their own business. Being female, I’ve always been ‘allowed’ to wear skirts, dresses, jeans, shirts, flat shoes, high heels, blouses etc. etc. and I’ve always thought it was a pity that guys were ‘restricted’ by convention and couldn’t wear whatever they liked as well.
Wearing heels makes you look taller and feels great. There’s nothing wrong with you – you’re just bucking a trend. You definitely don’t need professional help! Just put on whatever shoes you like and enjoy it.
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you need change and accept change as it is for your welfare. take a paper and write your habits one by one and reconcile them to what extent it is your welfare. you plan your self and start a better living by your thought and the way you wanted to live for your self.
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