I could really use some input..?
Hi I have been wearing womens shoes for 11 years now. I had started out getting womens hiking boots because they look like mens. I had started wearing them in high school my senior year. Since most hiking boots look the same no one noticed. After I got out of school I started going for the tennis shoes that looked a little more feminine. I have always liked the way they looked and the way they fit. Lately I have been buying some flats. I have been able wear them around town and even to work. My boss don’t mind me wearing them. I like the way they fit and the styles they have. They also show off my tattoos. Lately I have bought a couple pairs of high heels. I have also wanted to wear heels to work. Not anything too high just some thing like 2 inches. I am trying to understand why I have started thinking this way. I thought I would ask and see if any one could help me out with this. I am just wondering if any one else has had this happen? If so how did you deal with it? I have been looking into professional help. How ever some don’t understand. I don’t mean any offence to any one here. I like to wear womens shoes alot. I am just trying to understand. Thanks in advance for your help and input.
i agree with the first comment ( very nice comment, your awesome!).
if you like it do it? talk to your boss. the world needs to become more accepting and we need to challenge traditional ideas values and stereotypes!
there are probably other men out there hating themselves for feeling the same way as you becasue they think its wrong. you being confident and fantastic enough to do what you want with your life could help so many in the long run!
i hate wearing high heels but if you like wearing girls shoes man, do it! they are just shoes. good on you though. you have guts. and no sorry i have no idea why it may be that way, maybe the shape of your feet or something?
if you like it do it! try not to think about why. enjoy life!
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I am really not trying to sound bigotted… but bro, you need to reclaim your manhood. Go bunjee jumping, get in a bar fight or SOMETHING to stop the erosion of your masulinity towards the dark waters of metrosexualism. As far as the shoes go… hiking boots? Got it, totally cool. Tennis shoes? A little strange, but maybe they fit better so ok. Flats?! Now this is getting a kinda creepy… Heels?! You corssed a line here man… absolutely under NO cicrumstance is it acceptable for a man to wear heels unless he is incredibly drunk and lost a bet
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Hey whatever makes you feel good, go for it. Nobody has the right to make a person feel less than he or she is simply by what they wear. If you are a good person, have never hurt anyone and go about your life in a quiet manner then just go with whatever makes you happy. Why do you need to understand it, just accept it, things may change when you accept your life and don’t fret about things.
Best wishes
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i agree with the first comment ( very nice comment, your awesome!).
if you like it do it? talk to your boss. the world needs to become more accepting and we need to challenge traditional ideas values and stereotypes!
there are probably other men out there hating themselves for feeling the same way as you becasue they think its wrong. you being confident and fantastic enough to do what you want with your life could help so many in the long run!
i hate wearing high heels but if you like wearing girls shoes man, do it! they are just shoes. good on you though. you have guts. and no sorry i have no idea why it may be that way, maybe the shape of your feet or something?
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we need to accept everyone and everything as long as its not detrimental to anyone else.
‘Please help me with figuring this out.’
You have put the same question in the above nomenclature.
Now the same question you have put like "I could really use some input".
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It could be you just like femanine enegry(what man dosent)perhapes this is your way of showing it.If you have gay/bi feelings it could be your subcicis telling you to address it,if not I don’t think it means anything to serious.My dad whent though a stage of exploring his feminen side ,he evean wore nail polish! but he’s straint and he got over it,do what ever it’s a free country,just be aware that sadly you may face some prejuce
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